Shame Resilience in Sexuality: Tools from Self-Compassion Research
HalloSexual shame is a pervasive and often debilitating emotion. It’s that knot in your stomach when you fear judgment over a desire, that recoil when a memory surfaces, or the silent voice telling you that some part of your sexual self is "wrong," "dirty," or "unlovable." Shame isn't just an internal feeling; it's like an intense force that can isolate us, erode self-worth, and ultimately interfere with our ability to experience pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection.
Spooky Sweethearts: 5 Frightfully Fun Date Ideas for Halloween
Halloween isn't just for kids collecting candy. For couples, it's the perfect excuse to break out of your usual date night routine and try something deliciously different. Whether you're looking to add some playful spookiness to your relationship or deepen your connection through shared thrills, these five Halloween date ideas will help you and your partner create memories that last well beyond October 31st.
Primal Play and Predator/Prey Dynamics: Halloween's Perfect Kink
There's something about Halloween that awakens our inner animal. It could be the masks, the darkness, the permission to be something other than our everyday selves. This year, while scrolling through social media during spooky season, I noticed an interesting trend: people dressed as masked movie villains creating steamy scenarios that blurred the line between fear and desire.
How Couples Therapy Can Enhance Your Sex Life
When people think about couples therapy, they often picture heated arguments about whose turn it is to do the dishes or tearful conversations about feeling disconnected. While therapy certainly addresses these issues, there's another crucial aspect that many couples don't talk about—at least not at first: sex.
Relationship Anarchy vs Monogamish and Everything in Between: A Complete Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Structures
Remember when choosing a relationship style was as simple as "going steady" or not? Yeah, those days are over, and honestly? That's pretty amazing. The world of ethical non-monogamy is like a relationship buffet where you actually get to choose what's on your plate instead of settling for the standard combo meal.
What to Expect at Your First Couples Therapy Session
Going to couples therapy can be scary, but it doesn't have to be. This guide explains what to expect at your first couples therapy session, from finding the right therapist to understanding the therapy process, so you can feel prepared and empowered to improve your relationship.
Inside Rouse: Collaborating with Pelvic Floor Physical Therapists
When talking about sex and sexual health, many factors can help create or interrupt a person's experience of a comfortable sexual encounter. In July, Rouse providers had a chat with Dr. Julie Sarton, a physical therapist with 30 years of experience helping clients who feel pelvic pain, sexual pain, or pelvic floor dysfunction.
Premarital Counseling: Build a Strong Foundation for Your Marriage
Premarital counseling helps couples build a strong foundation for a lasting marriage. Learn how it improves communication, aligns expectations, and fosters emotional intimacy. Find a therapist and invest in your relationship's future today!
Essential Questions About Intimacy for Pre-Marital Couples
Enhance your pre-marital journey by exploring essential questions about intimacy. This blog post delves into key topics for couples to discuss, fostering a strong foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Discover how open communication and understanding can deepen your emotional connection and build trust.
Beyond Intercourse: Exploring Pleasure with Carol Queen
Sex toys can be a welcome addition to a person’s sex life. In June, Rouse providers had a meeting with sexologist Carol Queen where she discussed genital anatomy and sex toys that can increase the likelihood of experiencing pleasure during a sexual encounter.
Inside Rouse: What is Gender-Affirming Voice Coaching
Rouse Relational Wellness is committed to creating a shame free and nurturing space for all people seeking sex therapy and counseling. Last April, Rouse providers had a wonderfully unique experience to receive training from Speech Therapist Saskia Lilienfeld whose main focus is Gender Affirming Voice and Communication Therapy.
Sexual Wellness and Empowerment: A Guide for LGBTQ+ Individuals
Sexual wellness is a crucial aspect of overall well-being, yet it remains an often overlooked element, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. At Rouse Relational Wellness, we believe in embracing your true self and fostering empowerment through tailored approaches to sexual health.
Diving Deep, Together: Exploring the Potential of Group Ketamine Therapy
The landscape of mental health treatment is evolving, and with it, many feel a growing openness to innovative approaches. Among these, ketamine therapy has emerged as a promising avenue for individuals struggling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other common mental health conditions
Inside Rouse: High Conflict Couples Training
From individuals to couples to polycules, the providers at Rouse have a wide range of clientele they work with. At a team meeting in April, the founder and clinical director of Rouse Relational Wellness David F Khalili LMFT hosted a training session on how to better understand and work with high conflict couples.
8 Ways to Practice Enthusiastic Consent in Your Relationships
Enthusiastic consent is a newer, improved model of consent that focuses more on the positive expression of consent. This model of consent ensures that partners are reciprocally interested and find joy (enthusiastic) in engaging in sexual activity rather than consenting because it is safe to not say "no."
Beyond "Yes" or "No": Exploring the Nuances of Consent
The importance of consent in a relationship cannot be overemphasized. It is the cornerstone of interactions between partners in a relationship. It is a crucial tool to set boundaries between partners, especially when it comes to physical and sexual activities. Without consent, partners may step on each other's toes, resulting in misunderstanding.
Three sexual health topics to talk about with your partner
Sex is an important and typically enjoyable part of any loving, adult relationship, but conversations around sexual health can sometimes be difficult. To maintain a healthy, fulfilling relationship, open communication is key.
Why Women’s Sexual Health Deserves Greater Attention and Advocacy
Women's sexual health is vital for overall well-being. Learn about common concerns, joys, & how to prioritize your sexual wellness. Get expert help at Rouse Relational Wellness now! San Francisco, CA.
“Take a Walk on the Wild Side” An Important Discussion with Tijanna O. Eaton about Black Women and Kink
For some, people exploring kink can be an exciting and liberating experience. For others, it can be stress inducing or uncomfortable experience especially for black women. Tijanna O. Eaton, a self-described “MoC Dyke,” is an expert in the world of kink and is passionate about encouraging black women to find joyous experiences, especially in regards to exploring kink.
Shan Boodram: Redefining Intimacy for the Modern World
At a time when sexual education was scarce, Shan Boodram was one of the few personalities who stood to take the task upon them. Thankfully, her impactful teachings have made marks in the lives of many over the years.